A World Full Of Strong People

Something That Could Change The World

When I go out into the world, I feel something insidious.  I smell it wafting through the air.  And then I see it.  I hear it.  Just where it originates from I’m not sure, but the effects are evident everywhere.

Sick people who have been told they are simply getting older and there’s nothing they can do about it.  It’s just their genetic lot in life they’re told.

Minorities being told they are victims and the deck is stacked against them, so why even try?  Just vote for the politician giving out free stuff.

Young girls using smart phones and social media to get attention and validation from perfect strangers they’ll never meet.  Glued to their screens walking down the street and missing all that’s actually going on around them.

People who believe the government, or their doctor, or a deity, or some famous person somewhere will solve all of their problems.  A mindset that looks externally to others as the source of both problems and solutions.  A blindness to the inner strength we all have the potential to possess and wield.

So many people have more strength and well being inside than they have ever experienced or even considered.  Mental strength, emotional strength, physical strength.  It’s all intertwined.  There will always be variations and levels since we’re all different, but we could stand to move the middle of the bell curve forward quite a lot.

I want to see more strong people every day when I walk out the door.  More people who can not only help themselves, but those around them.  People who are wise to the lie that they are simply victims of fate.  And who therefore won’t be manipulated into handing over their personal power.  People who can see and sense their own worth without being told by someone else.

If we are all part of a society, then the more strong individuals there are the stronger society will be.  It’s simple arithmetic.  4 + 4 is greater than 2 + 2.  And it’s a beneficial feedback loop.  There won’t be reason to focus on which group in society is more privileged than another because we’ll all be strong individuals, judged on our merit.

But there is so much knowledge that has to be spread for this to happen.  And so much bullshit that has to be overcome and stripped away.  Not to mention a massive amount of momentum moving in the wrong direction.

And the only way to do it is for more people to show the way.  Others have to see you striving and shining first, and then they’ll want to understand the secret.  People usually don’t make major changes when someone else tries to force them to.

You often have to plant a small seed and wait for them to come to you.  They come to you because they sense something in you.  See something in you.

So let’s make a deal.  You show someone the way through example, and I will too.  Because I know there are strong people like you out there as well.  And perhaps in time we’ll begin to have a world full of people getting stronger.  I don’t care if that might be a pipe dream because it’s the simplest and most effective way to a better world.

Focus On The Things Within Your Control

Some Things Are Entirely In Our Control, Some Aren’t

Life has been reminding me lately that certain things are in our control, and others aren’t.  Every success, whether personal or business, is generally a combination of opportunity presenting itself and being prepared to seize the opportunity when it arrives.  This is why it’s really important to stay ready and focus on the things within your control.

We often can’t force the right opportunities and encounters to show up in our lives.  We can increase the odds through our actions and our thoughts, but the reality is that certain things won’t happen right when we want them to happen.

Yet we can make daily conscious decisions to take specific actions that keep us prepared for anything life offers up.  Everything from working on our mindset, to diet, and even the way we breathe will contribute to success in some way.  These are just a few of a long list of items that are always within our conscious control.

So that is where one’s focus should lie.  Doing everything to be ready for the things that aren’t entirely in our control, while always being alert and ready for the unexpected.

And when life dishes out hard times, these same decisions and actions can be a source of strength.  Tragedy and loss can’t be reversed, but just because life feels out of control doesn’t mean we can’t build ourselves up anyway.  The things we can control directly will help when it comes to putting one foot in front of the other after we get knocked sideways.  They are a target to aim at daily so we don’t lose our way.  And they ensure one comes out the other side strong and healthy instead of turning to destructive ways of coping with physical or emotional pain.

Patience Is The Foundation

First and foremost, aim to cultivate patience.  We can set our intentions for what we’d like in our lives, but it’s very powerful to develop a deep sense of patience while we live without the things we’d like to accomplish or attain.  Letting go of outcomes if very powerful.  This isn’t the same as complacence.  It means enjoying the daily work and the journey without expectation.  With this approach, frustration is less likely to creep in.  And this is important because getting to the finish line is often just a matter of staying the course.

It is when we feel and experience a deep sense of lack, or being without, that negative feelings like doubt and jealousy creep in and derail us.  Patience is the antidote.  To be able to simply be okay without the things we’d prefer to have.  Seems pretty obvious, right?  Well it’s easier said than done, and very easy to lose sight of.  So this is a reminder to myself as much as anything.

And it’s the foundation for redirecting focus to the things we can influence directly every day.

The Things We Can Control

Once a sense of patience has been accomplished, focus can shift to the things we are able to control directly.  The things that prepare us for opportunities that surface.  Here are a few to keep in mind.

Mindset

Mindset certainly encompasses patience, but there is more to it than that.  It means having the strength to turn negative thoughts into positive thoughts.  The term for this is re-framing.  Re-framing is a very powerful skill.

Any situation can be seen in far more ways than one.  Failure and criticism can be seen in a negative light.  As some indication that we aren’t capable.  On the other hand, they can be seen as a kick in the ass to grow and discover the things we can work on to become more capable and skilled.  Aim to turn every situation positive in the mind, no matter what.  Even life’s hardest moments have a bright side.  This will result in a fundamental shift that promotes forward motion and improvement.  Some might think it’s a bad idea to be overly optimistic because it can lead to disappointment.  I call bullshit.  An optimistic mindset combined with patience is powerful.

One technique I learned from reading Eckhart Tolle is to watch our own thoughts as if from a third party point of view.  Don’t judge negative thoughts.  Just detach from them and see them for what they are.  See that they are learned patterns.  See that they aren’t necessarily reality.  And in time any tendency to generate negative, self defeating thoughts will slowly start to fade away.

Breathing

Human beings are meant to breathe deeply, slowly, and steadily.  But constant distraction and stress can result in breath that is shallow and quick.  It is far easier to become anxious, irritable, and distracted when breathing patterns are incorrect.

There are many schools of breathing practice, but I’ve found two things to focus on that have made all the difference for me and keep things simple and easy to stick with.

First, breathe through the nose only.  Mouth breathing is for slobs.  Quiet nose breathing results in a nice slow breathing pace by default because the sinuses are smaller passageways than the mouth.  The sinuses also clean and moisturize the air we breathe.  And we lose a lot less carbon dioxide when we breathe through the nose which is crucial for health and mental calm.  There is no way to consciously nose breath at night while sleeping, but a way to ensure breathing is correct around the clock is to tape the mouth at night.  It sounds and feels a bit strange at first, but it’s easy to get used to.  Just put a small strip of surgical tape across the lips before bed.

Second, breathe into the belly.  This ensures the breath goes all the way to the bottom of the lungs.  It’s a really simple mental cue.  And this will trigger the parasympathetic nervous system which is the rest and relax side of the autonomic nervous system.

For more info on breathing, do an internet search for Buteyko Breathing.  But you can just focus on these two simple breathing techniques and get great benefits.

Nutrition

Personally I’ve done really well lately on a very low carbohydrate diet.  I’ve come to believe that metabolic health is one of the keys to well being and success in life.  Some people can eat pretty much whatever they want and still feel and perform great.  I can’t.  So I make a point of eating what helps me get ahead on a  daily basis.  And that means low carb, high fat, and plenty of animal protein.  If I can be in a state of ketosis I seem to be at my best and compete with the people who are able to eat candy all day and stay sharp.

I will throw in my two cents against vegetarian and vegan diets for staying big, strong, and mentally robust.  Even though I truly do see the appeal.  I was vegetarian for five years and it wasn’t good for my health or well being.  No matter how many beans, nuts, and other vegetable-based calories and proteins I ate, I continued losing weight.  I dropped from over 200 lbs. to about 165 lbs. in a few years.  After I reintroduced meat to my diet I shot right back to 190 lbs.  Now I’m 210 lbs. in my skivvies and lean as well.  Everyone is different, but animal based foods provide certain nutrients like vitamin B12, zinc, and omega-3 fatty acids such as DHA and EPA that can’t be found in adequate amounts or bioavailability in vegetables.  Our brains thrive on DHA and EPA.

I still eat a ton of vegetables, but a good quality steak and grass fed butter make me feel strong like bull.  That’s because animal protein is superior to plant protein.

Not to beat this point to death, but whatever you eat, eat real food the vast majority of the time.  If it comes pre-packaged, you generally shouldn’t eat it.  If the ingredients list includes items you can’t pronounce or recognize, don’t eat it.  The main point is that eating the wrong food (for you) will hold you back.  So make nutrition a priority.  It’s an easy thing to control every day.

Drinking & Drugs

Have some fun from time to time.  Nothing wrong with it.  But being hungover on a consistent basis does not prepare a person to be their best when opportunity knocks.  And hungover doesn’t have to mean vomiting and raging headaches.  It can simply be lower energy, a bit of brain fog, and poor sleep from one or two drinks.  Being off even 10% from your potential every day will take some toll.  Just my opinion.

If you haven’t taken a couple of months to be completely sober in awhile, give it a try.  It creates a juxtaposition that makes it obvious how a couple of drinks a night isn’t completely neutral.  Even light consumption on a consistent basis has an impact.

If you like getting high, make that an occasional indulgence too.  It’s also a lot more fun and interesting if it isn’t a daily habit.  It too dulls the mind if it’s a daily crutch.  Be smart and prioritize optimal function over catching a buzz.

With regards to any other party favors, use common sense.  Most anything isn’t helpful when it isn’t occasional.  And some substances should obviously be avoided altogether.

Fitness

A strong body is a huge benefit to any endeavor in life.  And a strong body strengthens the mind.  As a friend of mine who is in real estate has always said, negotiations are always easier for him when he knows he got up and squatted that morning while the other guy didn’t.  It’s a slight mental edge, not just physical.

And when in the dating market, the benefits of fitness are pretty obvious.  I mention this because that’s been part of my life lately.

I’m biased, but I think people should focus on compound lifts like squats and deadlifts.  And high intensity interval training like wind sprints or other short, but intense bursts of exercise.  I’m speaking to the ladies as well as the guys.  The occasional long run, bike ride, or hike is great too, but I wouldn’t make them the foundation of any fitness regimen.  And I love a bit of asymmetrical body movement activity like rock climbing or playing games that require adapting to moving objects and moving forward, backward and sideways.

The Company We Keep

Spend time with people who challenge you. Spend time with people who inspire you and expose you to new ideas.  Spend time with people who support your vision even if they prefer to live differently.  Spend time with people who are better than you at certain things.  Spend time with people who don’t waste time frivolously and avoid people who do.

And learn to spend time alone.  This is ultimate power.  When you’re perfectly fine in your own company, you have found your center.  This helps provide clarity when deciding what it is you really want from life.

Media Consumption

This includes movies, shows, news, music, books, online content like blogs and social media, and any other source of information or entertainment.

Generally speaking, avoid TV shows with regular commercial breaks.  Or at least mute the commercials.  Advertising is meant to make you feel imperfect, lacking, and less than others.  Then the advertiser tries to sell you something to help fill the void and make life whole again.  It’s bullshit.  Don’t participate.  You are perfectly whole.

The same goes for any music, movies, or shows that leave you feeling anything but strong and confident.  If it makes you feel sad, pensive, depressed, insecure, etc., just turn it off.  You are on a mission to be ready to tackle life every day.  Anything that weakens the mind and mood is a contradiction to this mission and is completely unnecessary.

There are plenty of good websites, blogs, podcasts, and non-corporate news these days where the creators want to share strength with you and inspire you.  Search out the good stuff where you walk away feeling like you have the power to take life by the horns.  Or where you learned something truly worthwhile and applicable in your own path towards living the life you want.

I listen to a lot of instrumental music.  Where the beat gives me energy, makes me feel good, the musicianship (or even digital production) is really solid, and there aren’t any lyrics imposing some sort of meaning.  I really don’t want to hear about somebody else’s heartache.

When I read, I generally read something educational.  Good fiction can be educational, but mostly I stick to non-fiction.  And I take a spin through Barron’s on a weekly basis to look for investment ideas.

Also, don’t indulge in porn.  And for that matter, don’t waste time masturbating.  Just don’t.  These things weaken the mind, the body, and the will.  I know from experience, and cutting them out is incredibly powerful.  My focus improves, my enthusiasm improves, I’m far more productive, and I’m much more social.  And I don’t feel like a loser.

Style

I can also make a conscious decision to dress well whenever I’m out and about.  That doesn’t have to mean suit and tie. But clean clothes that fit well go a long way, even if it’s just jeans, t-shirt, and sneakers.  If I’m at the grocery store and get an inviting glance from a lovely lady, I don’t want to be in sweatpants and smell like BO.  Not that it always matters, but being put together increases self confidence and makes me feel like acting on those inviting glances.

Sleep

Last but not least, get plenty of sleep.  Unless there is good reason to stay up late, go to bed early.  That way you’re less likely to require an alarm to wake up which allows natural sleep patterns to run their course.

Personally, when I don’t get enough sleep, or sleep poorly, I almost feel hungover the next day.  My cognition and memory are subpar, and my mood is less positive.

Pretty simple, but hugely impactful.  I realize sleep isn’t totally controllable, but we can control what time we go to bed, how we wind down at the end of the night, avoiding screen time in the evening, our sleep environment, and even looking into supplements like magnesium to help out.

When Life Throws Hard Times At Us

Knowing which things we can consciously control isn’t just beneficial when we encounter good times in life.  It’s also useful when we have to deal with trials and tribulations.

We all experience losses of various sorts from time to time.  When I went through a divorce, my first inclination was to pick up a six pack after work every night.  But I knew that wasn’t going to help me move forward the way I wanted to.

So I decided to immerse myself in vigorous exercise and ensure I ate impeccably.  Two simple tactics.  I was pretty grumpy for quite some time, and it was miserable coming home to an empty house because I wasn’t used to it.  But I knew that if I lifted hard or did some interval training that I’d get a rush of endorphins and feel just a bit better.  And that little bit made all the difference.  Throw a healthy meal on top of that and instead of drinking myself into a middle age spare tire, I got stronger and leaner than ever before which gave me tons of confidence to go out and meet new girls.

Final Thoughts

Whether we’re on the lookout for creative ideas, career opportunities, relationships, or anything else that may or may not show up on a given day, it’s always good to keep oneself ready.  So identify the things you can control and go after them.  And in difficult times, having a list of daily actions to keep strong mentally and physically is an unbelievably effective tool for maintaining forward motion in life.  When we do small things daily, they accumulate and add up in a big way over time.

What else might you add to this list?

 

The Fine Art of Being Bored

Whatever Happened to Doing Nothing?

We live in a YOLO and FOMO culture these days.  You only live once, and it results in a fear of missing out.  It makes one feel like they have to be in motion constantly.  Don’t want to miss any fabulous selfie or social media opportunities.  But sometimes it’s good to do nothing.  It’s healthy.  Boredom can inspire creativity and new ideas.  And we’re mortal creatures that have to conserve energy from time to time.  Conserved energy allows one to engage in life with more vigor.

And even when we stay home to relax, it’s easy to be constantly distracted by social media, Netflix shows, or video games.  Simply sitting out on the back step and listening to the sounds of the city or nature can seem pretty boring in comparison.  But it’s good to do so from time to time.  Just watch the clouds pass overhead.  Pay attention to the warmth of the sun.  It helps reset our dopamine systems that are overstimulated much of the time by constant entertainment and information.  It develops patience, allows for honest reflection, and builds a certain kind of mental fortitude.

For much of our evolution, we were busy with taking care of procuring food and water, building and maintaining shelter, and staying safe from the dangers of the world.  But it wasn’t on a 9-5 schedule.  So when we were done with these activities, we had down time.  And we didn’t have flat screen TV’s.  when it got dark at night, we didn’t turn on a bunch of lights and stay up late.  Being still and quiet, yet alert, was likely a large part of our development as a species.

Relishing Boredom

Whenever I’m having an unusually mellow Saturday afternoon, it’s common for me to feel a bit of anxious energy bubble up if I’m not being productive in some way.  I’m conditioned to feel like I’m wasting my precious moments if I’m not creating something, learning something, getting ahead.

But I’ve learned that there is power in turning off my phone, shutting down the laptop, and just sitting quietly.  Perhaps even meditating.  Being alone with our own thoughts can be a bit frightening at times.  We’re all probably a little bit nuts in some ways.  But it’s also the best way to see thoughts for what they are, learn to be at ease with them, and guide them in a more constructive way.  It’s a chance to visualize what we want in life as well.

And with regards to productivity, one of my most financially successful friends is a master at being bored.  As he says, “that’s where the magic happens”.  And he’s right.  To be able to let inspiration and ideas in, sometimes it’s necessary to shut off the noise and just be bored for a bit.  He’s proof that a person can make millions of dollars without staying unnecessarily busy 24/7.  He relishes the inevitable boredom instead of letting it make him fidgety.

Be Bored On Purpose

Take some time on a regular basis to be bored on purpose.  It doesn’t have to be for hours on end, just for a little while.  Or at least settle in for a bit when boredom pops up on its own.  Don’t fight it.  And trust that it isn’t wasting time.  It’s an art form, especially in this day in age.  Just sit still and smile and it will differentiate you in a small way.  Think about your life and let your imagination take you for a ride.  You’ll be healthier and happier for it.

Ketogenic Diet Self Expermient, Part 1

Anecdotal Evidence Alert

I’d like to share my own n=1 personal experiment with the ketogenic diet.  Please note that this will be highly subjective and anecdotal in nature.  I simply wanted to share some of what I’ve experienced in case it can be helpful or insightful to somebody else.

It goes without saying that I’m not offering medical advice here.  And everyone should consult their doctors and/or nutritionists if they’re interested in trying different diets.

I’ve also titled this post as Part 1 because I’m only two months into this experiment.  And know it could take some turns as I go.  This would most likely result in Parts 2 and beyond at some point.

The Beginnings of My Ketogenic Journey

First, I’ll save you all from a lengthy explanation of ketosis.  There are so many good articles already available.  They’re written by doctors ans scientists and explain it better than I could.  Just do an internet search if you aren’t familiar with the topic and you’ll find more information than you can possibly read.

So why did I decide to try eating a ketogenic diet?  Primarily because of the purported mental benefits.  Many people claim improved memory recall and cognition, not to mention improved mood.  I was also interested in the claim that ketosis can increase mitochondrial density.  Also, I realized I’d been showing some signs of metabolic syndrome on and off for a couple of years – high blood pressure, low HDL cholestrol, and fasting glucose levels on the high side.

I was actually hesitant to try the ketogenic diet because the low carbohydrate intake and lower protein intake than I’m used is supposed to be detrimental to heavy strength training.  I’d just run the Texas Method strength program and gained ten pounds of lean body mass and got my deadlift up to 500 lbs. in the process.  The prevailing narrative is that glucose is essential for driving the anaerobic energy system in strength/explosive athletes.  And that without carbs, max strength and power would suffer. Furthermore, I’d been eating around 200 grams of protein daily to promote muscle growth.  In ketosis I’d be eating quite a bit less.

I also knew that ketosis could make me leaner.  I’m all for it, but also didn’t want to lose too much bodyweight.  I want to stay at about 200-205 lbs., so my hope going into this was that I’d be able to continue building muscle while losing body fat.  That way I’d stay around the same weight as my body composition slowly changed towards a leaner physique.  To do this I knew I’d have to keep my calorie levels at 3000+ per day.

I wasn’t sure what to expect from a hormonal and libido standpoint, but I do know that hormones like testosterone require cholesterol for production.  And the ketogenic diet doesn’t shy away from dietary cholesterol and fatty acids.

What I’ve Experienced In The First Two Months

I’ll run through a bullet point list of my experiences since starting the ketogenic journey.  Again, I’m not trying to sell this diet, and everyone is different.  But for me it has most definitely had a huge positive impact.

-First a quick warning that it can be a bumpy ride for a week or two.  Cutting out all grains and potatoes and reducing carbohydrates to less then 50 grams per day truly caused withdrawal symptoms for me.  I had several days where I felt downright depressed, and almost detached from reality.  That said, I knew to expect it as I adjusted, and so I was able to ride it out and it passed.

-On the flip side, as the carb withdrawal symptoms reduced I started to have some days where I was downright happy for no apparent reason.  This was a huge juxtaposition to the low grade melancholy feeling I now realize I’d had much of my life.  The positive mood makes me feel more outgoing, and more assertive at work, etc.  I can’t overstate how welcomed this is, and it’s been more and more frequent as I go.

-During those days of positive mood, I definitely felt my brain light up as well.  Memory recall and cognition did indeed hit a different level of function.  It’s not like I gained 50 IQ points or something.  But the combination of feeling quicker on my toes so to speak, along with a happy disposition, made me much more effective at work.  As I’ve become more efficient at burning fat for fuel in the absence of excessive carbs, I’ve also noticed at times that if I eat a nice piece of fatty grass-fed beef, etc., my mind will start to buzz with energy for an hour or two afterwards.  It’s wonderful.

-I feel much calmer eating fats over carbohydrates.  For example, I was hiking the other day and as I walked past a bush I scared a large bird out of it.  It caused a huge ruckus.  Typically that much sudden, unexpected commotion coming from right beside me would give me a slight adrenaline rush.  But the other day I had no fight or flight reaction whatsoever.  I’ve felt that general sense of calm in other areas of my day to day life as well.  It’s stand to reason given the ketogenic diet was originally used to treat epilepsy.  It calms the electrical activity in the brain.

-I bought a Precision Xtra ketone/glucose meter to help assess my progress in reaching ketosis and stabilizing my blood sugar.  When I first started this diet my fasted morning blood glucose was typically 100-120 which is high.  After two months my blood glucose readings are pretty much 80-85 every time which is a whole lot better.  This points to a potential improvement in insulin sensitivity.  Regardless, my morning blood sugar is in a much better range after a short time.

-Despite the warnings out there that max strength efforts require glucose, and despite eating less glucose, I’ve felt just as strong as I did before.  I continue to lift heavy in the 1-5 rep range and my heavy squats and deadlifts feel very explosive.  The bars moves fast, and I also seem recover quite well.  Perhaps I shouldn’t be surprised since the liver can continue to make some glucose out of protein and fats via a process called gluconeogenesis.  I don’t seem to be having any impaired performance from lower carbohydrate intake.

-Along those lines, I was hitting my heavy bag the other day, and my punches were incredibly snappy.  I was hitting the bag really well with a lot of power.

-In the aerobic realm, I’ve been doing a weekend hike most weeks.  One thing I’ve noticed is that my heart rate and breathing stay nice and steady when going uphill at a rapid clip.  Like there’s less stress on my system or something.  And far less pounding in my head.  It’s hard to explain with words, but I feel more efficient.  And I’m hiking in the Rocky Mountains at altitude.  I haven’t done any jogging or long bike rides lately but I’m curious to see how those feel.  I suspect they might feel great.

-Another symptom of keto adaptation I experienced at first was high blood pressure.  I was in for an annual physical about two weeks after I started, and my systolic blood pressure was 151 which is quite high.  It has since normalized to the 120 range on a regular basis.  I could probably stand to get it down a little bit more, but it hasn’t been close to 151 in many weeks.  One explanation for this is that ketones and uric acid both get excreted through the same pathways.  So when the body first starts producing more ketones than it knows how to use, uric acid levels can rise because the body is also eliminating excess ketones.  Uric acid tends to lower nitric oxide levels which can cause vasoconstriction.  Hence higher temporary blood pressure.

-As previously mentioned, I’ve continued to eat quite a lot of calories on a daily basis.  My primary goal was never to lose body fat as I was already pretty lean.  But I’m still noticeably leaner.  The shape of my body has changed a bit, and I can see more blood vessels in my arms and legs.  I still weight 205+ lbs. most times I step on the scale.

-My skin looks better, and is much more moist.  It seems to me that I look a bit younger than I did two months ago.  Maybe, maybe not, but I do look healthy.

-It’s not every day, but many days my afternoon energy levels are more consistent.  This makes sense because even a very lean person stores a huge amount of energy in the form of fat.  A person who burns fat efficiently can stay well fueled for days without eating.

-My body temperature seems to be higher.  Normally I kind of enjoy summer heat, but this summer I can hardly stand it at times.  And I don’t even notice the frigid AC in the office during the work day where it used to bother me in the summers.

-I’ve noticed significantly less bloating after eating.  And my usual room-clearing gas is all but gone.  I’m also noticing that the times I do let one rip it has virtually no smell.  Seems like a pretty good sign to me.  And perhaps my gut microbiome is becoming healthier.

-A girlfriend was visiting last weekend, and I must say that the libido effects of eating plenty of high quality fat was noticeable to me.  Or maybe it was the reduction of carbohydrates.  Or both.  Who knows.  But my soldier was at attention, and that’s all that really matters.

Some Final Thoughts For Now

So far, it seems that a very low carb, high fat diet works really well for me.  I will see if this continues, but it seems to make sense.  I got the results of a 23 And Me genetic test recently, and I’m half Swedish from my Mom’s side.  Furthermore, my maternal haplogroup is common among the people who have historically lived above the Arctic Circle in Sweden, Norway, Finland, and parts of western Russia.  A little research revealed that those people have historically subsisted on animal meat and fat, cold water fish high in fat, and reindeer milk much of the year.  I also have more Neanderthal gene variants than 90% of other people.  Neanderthals were primarily carnivorous.  I still eat a good amount of vegetables, but it stands to reason that eating a ton of grains up until now hadn’t been ideal for me.

Someone who’s ancestry goes back to regions of long term agriculture and consumption of grain might handle sugars and carbs just fine.  But despite having not eaten sugary junk foods for many years, my body still seemed to be suffering from a diet high in whole grains and potatoes.  This really makes me question the notion that whole grains are a health food for all people.  And they probably shouldn’t be the base of some people’s food pyramids.  I’m not saying I’ll never eat any ever again, but unless this diet stops treating me well I can see myself primarily eating low carbohydrate into the future.  The sense of strength, health and well being I’ve experienced thus far is hard to deny.

If you have any interesting experiences with a ketogenic diet, good or bad, please feel free to share in the comments.

The Pursuit of Excellence Attracts Others Who Are Excellent

Lifestyle and Relationships

I’m a bit of an outlier.  A lot of people I know think I’m a little too hardcore.  A little too disciplined and serious.  Not fun enough sometimes.  Always meticulous about what I eat, what I drink, how I train, what I read, the media and entertainment I consume, always putting my phone on airplane mode when it’s in my pocket.

Dating is tricky because girls always try to break me down with a bite of their ice cream or their pizza.  At least the ones I’ve met.  Just a little test of their powers of persuasion.  And when I hold my ground, and explain that sugar is a net negative and wheat crust doesn’t sit well with me, it seems to be received as a personal insult.

Of course, I’d indulge in a ribeye slathered with butter in a heartbeat, so it doesn’t feel restrictive to me at all.  I actually feel like I indulge all of the time.  I also have no interest in insulting others, I just have my preferences and understand what works for me.  But I digress.

Of course, I have a few friends who completely understand my path, preferences, and discipline.  And this is why we run together.  I respect their efforts to be their best, whatever that may mean, and they respect mine.  On some level we’re all lone wolves doing our own thing and coming together on occasion to share ideas.  This is how real friendships are formed.

On the flip side, people who think I’m crazy and can’t see past it tend to self-select themselves out of my life..

And that’s only natural.  And welcomed.  Because excellence, or at least the pursuit of it, tends to attract excellence.  And mediocrity attracts more mediocrity.  People always feel better cutting corners if they can convince others to as well, and those are the people they want to be around.

Juxtapositions

I’ve been divorced for five years now, and have dated quite a few lovely young ladies.

But most of them don’t know how to deal with me.  They want me to come to their level.  “Come on, eat cookies and watch Netflix marathons with me.”  I have no idea why this is so important to them.  And I get some weird looks on first dates if these topics come up and I’m honest about my views.  It seems to result in less second dates and/or less long term connections when I’m not interested in wasting my Sundays on mimosa brunches with a bunch of random people on a regular basis.

Or maybe I just smell worse than I realize.  But I’m pretty sure mediocrity doesn’t like being exposed or challenged for what it is.  The juxtaposition can reveal a lot.  And people hate giving up their easy dopamine hits and excuses to be indulgent.  It’s much easier to eat the pint of ice cream and then blame genetics for being overweight, unhealthy, and prematurely aged.

*No, I’m not suggesting occasional ice cream automatically results in obesity.  But occasional is very subjective, and for some it’s really not all that occasional.  At least in my subjective opinion…

Would I Be Better Off Giving In?

I recently had the thought that perhaps I should compromise a bit and maybe I’d connect more easily with others.  Maybe eat more chocolate chip croissants and work on my dad bod.  Be more self destructive than self constructive.

I could date online instead of dealing with the multitudes of rejections that come with chatting up strangers on the street or at the store to get phone numbers and dates.

But taking the easy route, or any route that doesn’t move me towards my potential, is unacceptable.

Sure, letting go on occasion is healthy.  I’m happy to slug some whisky or wine sometimes.  Just not every night.  And not every week for that matter.   It’s about being mindful and not blindly feeding urges.  Balance.

Anyhow, I realized upon some reflecting that being a bit unusual and striving for my own personal excellence is more likely to bring more excellence into my life.  Even if I’m actually mediocre in reality, I’m pushing towards more and that’s the point.  It will take an unusual girl to jive with me for more than a few dates, but I’m willing to wait for that.  And I’ll be grateful that my approach to life weeded out all of the others in the long term so that there was room to let excellence in when it crossed my path.

 

Texas Method vs. Conjugate vs. 5/3/1

The Texas Method vs. Conjugate vs. 5/3/1

I wanted to share my personal experiences of the Texas Method vs. Conjugate vs. 5/3/1.  For those who don’t now what these are, they are some of the more well known barbell-based strength programs out there.  They’re the ones I’ve had the most success with so far, and they’re all quite tried and true.  I’ll explain the fundamentals of each program, as well as my experiences with each and how they compare to one another.  This is purely anecdotal and very subjective, so take it for what it’s worth.  Everyone is different and will respond differently to different programming.

For a bit of context, I’m a 41 year old male.  6’0″, 210 lbs, low bodyfat.  I’ve never had any sort of testing done to determine my muscle fiber type, but I’m fairly certain I lean towards fast twitch.  My vertical jump is still in the 36″ range at 41 years old, so I have good natural motor unit recruitment.  I’ve always been athletic and coordinated.  I should also point out that I played football in college.  So I was squatting close to 500 lbs. when I was 22.  And even though I stepped away from heavy lifting for quite a few years, my nervous system seemed to retain a good amount of the motor patterns for the barbell lifts.  I also had the previous mental reference experience of having weights that heavy on my back.  So when I returned to heavy lifting in my mid-30’s that was a huge advantage.  Still, it has taken a number of years to get back to where I was at 22, but I’ve gotten to that point nonetheless and plan to surpass my younger self.  I believe in lifting for strength with muscular development as a side effect.  And I generally prefer the physique created by compound lifts anyway.  Big legs, back and traps look strong, and compound lifts naturally create muscular balance because the whole body is working in concert as a unit to lift the weight.

Also, I eat a really good diet, don’t drink regularly, and sleep well which all make a huge difference in my experience.  Especially beyond age 40.

So here we go.  Let’s jump into this discussion of Texas Method vs. Conjugate vs. 5/3/1.

Texas Method

Texas Method Deadlift

The Texas Method is an intermediate lifting program developed by Mark Rippetoe of Starting Strength notoriety.  I’d already regained a lot of my former strength when I decided to look into Rippetoe’s programming, so I jumped right into the Texas Method instead of his novice linear progression programming.  I was already at the point where I was lifting heavy enough weights that weekly progress in loading was more appropriate from a recovery standpoint than progress each workout.

The Texas Method combines a high volume session as the first training stimulus of the week (medium weights combined with high reps), with a recovery day at lower weights, and a high intensity workout (heaviest weights at lower reps).

As is common in the Starting Strength approach, weight is incrementally added to the bar.  But it isn’t increased every workout like the novice progression.  Instead, it is increased over the prior week since the three workouts each week are done at different loads.  For example, the weight used on the volume day squats will be increased over the weight used for the prior week’s volume day squats.  The same goes for the weights used for the recovery and intensity days.  The program is designed to be a weekly progression that allows for more recovery from the heavier weights when a lifter moves from being a pure novice into being an intermediate.  At this point a lifter is getting closer to their genetic potential and recovery becomes more difficult.

I should note that Rippetoe offers up quite a lot of good advanced lifter programming, but it is truly for people approaching the top end limits of their genetic potential, and who are dedicated to competitive lifting.  That said, the intermediate programming is still appropriate for lifters who are very strong, and rather experienced under the bar.  Don’t let the name fool you.

So on to my experiences with the Texas Method.

I ran phases 1-3 of the Texas Method over approximately six months (see Rippetoe’s book Practical Programming for Strength Training for more details).  When I started I’d just finished experimenting with Conjugate programming and had hit a 475 lb. squat in wraps and belt, as well as a 485 lb. sumo deadlift (had been experimenting with sumo for the first time due to a sore lower back).  My goal was to switch back to conventional deadlifting and hit a 500 lb. deadlift.  As of the last Texas Method intensity day workout I did, I squatted 480 for five easy singles across with a belt but no knee wraps.  The bar moved nice and quickly.  I also deadlifted 500 lbs. conventional for a pretty easy double.  Mission accomplished and more.  These were work sets and not true maxes either.  I was satisfied and didn’t bother to go for true maxes, especially since I generally lift alone in my garage and I’m fine letting the bigger numbers come as part of work sets in future programming.  If I had to guess, I probably could have hit a max squat of 500+, and max deadlift of 525+.  Those are solid improvements in six months, especially considering I did the 480 lb. squats without knee wraps.  I should also point out that I squatted 435 for five sets of five on my last high volume day.  Before starting this programming, a single set of five at 405 would have been a huge accomplishment, so to me this was almost the most significant improvement – 25 squats of 435 lbs in a single workout.

The pros of the Texas Method in my experience:

  • Very fast progress on the squat and deadlift.  Assuming I added 40 lbs. to my deadlift in a half year, it doesn’t take a math whiz to see how that could play out over the course of another year or two.  Of course, progress doesn’t always move that quickly as weights get heavier, but it was still a quick jump in strength.
  • When I started the Texas Method, I was dealing with chronic lower back soreness.  But the Texas Method is very low volume when it comes to the deadlift.  The programming only calls for one heavy set of deadlifting per week.  I also did some medium weight Romanian deadlifts each week to build my back a bit, but this program seems to mostly rely on ever increasing low bar back squat maxes to drive the deadlift.  For me it worked very effectively and by the time I deadlifted 500 for a double, my back pain was completely gone.
  • I gained 10 lbs. of lean muscle in six months.  The high volume days that feature 5×5 programming not only build strength, but they induce some real hypertrophy.  My legs, glutes, traps and back got huge.
  • The increasing weights every week can be difficult mentally, but learning to get under the bar and do it anyway was a huge boost to the mind.  More on the flip side of this below.
  • In preparation for this program I read both Starting Strength, and Practical Programming for Strength Training by Mark Rippetoe and his teachings helped me re-dial my technique on the lifts which was huge.  I learned to become  a believer in the low bar squat.  It allowed me to move a lot more weight and I found it to benefit my deadlift tremendously.  I believe this has to do with the more horizontal back angle and greater emphasis on the posterior chain and muscles that stabilize the spine.  No other program drove my deadlift up more and I was only doing one non-warmup deadlift work set per week.  Thank you low bar squats.
  • I like the inclusion of the power versions of the clean and snatch.  They’re fun and awesome lifts.
  • I really respond to 5×5 programming.  The volume at heavy weights drives up both my strength and hypertrophy in  profound way.
  • Though some sessions are longer than others, there are only three training sessions per week.
  • While the following comment isn’t necessarily related to the effectiveness of the programming, I do love the prevalence of “sets across” where all of the work sets are at the same weight.  The bar can be loaded once for an exercise and there is no calculating loads and taking plates on and off in between sets.

Some of the cons of the Texas Method in my experience:

  • You may have noticed that I’ve been talking exclusively about squats and deadlifts, and haven’t said much about shoulder press and bench press.  The truth is that I didn’t make gains on those lifts that were nearly as noteworthy.  That could be my fault for not increasing those lifts enough each workout, but the Texas Method doesn’t put as much emphasis on those lifts since they are alternated each workout.  These lifts also get alternated which means they’re each done half as often.  Either way, I still got stronger in my upper body, just not to the same degree.  And let’s be honest, I don’t care that much because the squat and deadlift are my real focus anyway.  So I don’t consider this a true “con”, especially since I’m not looking to bench press at any competitions any time soon.
  • The volume day session is a long, brutal workout.  Once I got to squatting 435 for 5×5, it took quite a bit of rest between sets to ensure I hit all of the reps without missing.  And by then I was following it up with near limit 5×5 press or bench press, not to mention 3×5 heavy power cleans and some light-ish assistance work.  This all took a good two plus hours and was honestly quite taxing.  That being the case, I had to do these sessions on the weekend.  Weeknights were pretty much out of the question for volume day due to limited time by the time I got home from work. The point of all of this is that there wasn’t a lot of flexibility as far as fitting this program into my life.  If I missed the volume workout one weekend, I basically had to just skip a week and do a couple of the lighter recovery workouts until I could resume the following weekend.  That only happened once thankfully.  Yes, I could probably have sucked it up and done a volume workout on a weeknight once or twice.  But then my intensity session got pushed into the next weekend, or close to it, and didn’t leave much time to recover before the next volume workout.  I’m not 20 years old any more, and this programming pushed the limits of my body’s ability to recover so I had to be smart about the timing of workouts.
  • Because my ability to recover as the weights got heavier and heavier was getting close to it’s limits, I wasn’t able to do a lot of extra conditioning, etc.  I’d go for some light hikes and bike rides to keep loose and get some blood flow to my muscles, but for six months I was pretty much dedicated to the Texas Method and everything else revolved around it and came second.  Since I love to feel fit and athletic as well as strong, this was one aspect of the program I didn’t love.  But it was a worthwhile sacrifice to make big strength gains and pack on some substantial muscle.
  • After six months, I was beat down physically and mentally.  I most definitely developed a few nagging aches and pains in my lower body, and my quads became chronically sore even though I was low bar squatting with a posterior chain emphasis.  No amount of foam rolling or warming up made it go away until I took a good break, and each squat workout was a bit more mentally difficult as a result.  And speaking of mental stress, knowing how difficult it was to squat 430 for 5×5 didn’t make it easy to walk out to the garage for the following week’s session at 435.  As mentioned above, this had some mental benefits, but also got tiring after many weeks and months.
  • Because this program is a grind, don’t expect to do much else in terms of athletic endeavors as mentioned previously.  Rest days really have to be taken as rest days, and only light activity will allow for recuperating before the next session.
  • The way this program was able to grind me down wasn’t always great for my mindset and energy at work, etc.
  • I’m someone who can eat the same food day after day, and do the same workout week after week without getting too bored.  Progress makes it worthwhile.  But this programming did get very repetitive.  Ultimately, who cares about variety though when the gains are coming fast.

All in all, the Texas Method turned out to be the most effective programming I’ve done to date when it comes to fast progress in a short amount of time.  I’ve been doing a variation of Jim Wendler’s 5/3/1 program to switch things up a bit since my last Texas Method workout, but I just might run the Texas Method once or twice more in the future.  Rippetoe has figured out how to go from A to B in the straightest line possible, as quickly as possible, and that’s something I can appreciate.  I would have liked to try it at age 25 to see if the recovery would have been any better, but I still found it to be very effective in my 40’s.  I can’t recommend this program enough to those with the will to work through it.

The Conjugate Method

Conjugate Method Deadlift

 

Prior to running the Texas Method, I experimented with the Conjugate method made famous by Louie Simmons and Westside Barbell.  Specifically, I worked with a template published by Westside called Westside for Sports Athletic Development.  Conjugate tends to be a rather controversial approach to programming, with very polarized points of view.  Many insist it’s mostly applicable to geared powerlifting, and requires lots of hands on coaching.  There may be some truth to that because one of the staples of the program is using special assistance exercises to correct specific weaknesses.  And that isn’t always easy for someone to self-assess.  But Louie Simmons has had some incredible success training world class track athletes as well as the strongest powerlifters in the world.  That ability to develop explosive athletecism was a draw for me, and the program in question here includes some jumping and explosive work that I found appealing.  Also, I was dealing with some unrelenting lower back pain and tightness, and Westside prides itself on injury prevention so I thought maybe I could work out this back pain issue while getting stronger.

The basis of the program is that twice a week, a lifter works up to a new max attempt on both a lower body and upper body lift (maximum effort).  Then the other two days use lighter weights with a focus on lifting them as fast as possible (dynamic effort).  For the second half of each workout a lifter chooses a few assistance lifts for targeting weak spots and hypertrophy (repetition effort).  Add in the jumping and the muscles and nervous system are being worked in a variety of ways from grinding out max weights, to moving medium weights as fast as possible, to outright explosive power.  A lot of this is based on Soviet-era training principles that have been very effective for a lot of lifters.

Let’s continue this analysis of Texas Method vs. Conjugate vs. 5/3/1 with my personal experiences using the Conjugate approach.

I started Conjugate after several months of Jim Wendler’s 5/3/1 full body programming.  I definitely gained some solid strength on that program, so I was starting from a good base.  Though I never actually maxed out during that program, but based on some best efforts at multiple reps, I was able to extrapolate maxes using a formula ((weight x reps x 0.0333) + weight = 1 rep max).  It’s no doubt imperfect, but my best lifts were somewhere around the following at the time – squat 450, deadlift 465, shoulder press 195, bench 270.  During my time experimenting with Conjugate I worked up to a squat of 475 with belt and wraps, a sumo deadlift of 485, a 300 lb. bench press, and a 205 lb. shoulder press.

Some pros of the Conjugate method in my experience:

  • The fact that lifts are changed frequently prevents the program from getting stale, and also prevents nagging overuse injuries from repetitive movements.  It also allows a lifter to continually tweak and fine tune the program to focus on lifts that bring up weak areas.
  • The emphasis on volume with the assistance lifts seemed to induce some nice hypertrophy.  I looked huge.  Although I did put on more actual muscle with the Texas Method.  Conjugate puts an emphasis on triceps for building the bench press so I was doing more arm work than usual.
  • The dynamic effort days are a nice mental break and a bit of fun.  They’re also somewhat decent from a conditioning standpoint since the rest in between sets is timed and the sets are numerous and rapid fire in nature (though low in reps).  I always found myself dripping sweat on these days.
  • I love box squatting with chains (see below for thoughts on bands).  And I have no doubt it made me a faster and more explosive, though I wish I would have done some before/after measurements on my vertical jump and 40 yard dash time.  On the flip side, I don’t squat in a multi-ply suit, so that much sitting back may not have been overly beneficial for raw squatting with nothing but a belt?  Hard to say.
  • Westside and Louie Simmons introduced me to a number of new exercises that I think are great for recovery and athleticism.  These are exercises I can use with other programs too.  Things like the reverse hyper (found one for a great price used on craigslist, thank god), sled dragging, and the inverse curl (I did Russian leg curls instead since I don’t own an inverse curl machine).
  • Unlike the Texas Method that has one really long workout every week, I found the Conjugate training sessions relatively consistent in length.  So my Sunday workout could pretty easily become my Tuesday workout if I went out of town for a weekend, resulting in good flexibility and the option to miss a day and easily pick up where I left off without getting too far behind.

Some cons of the Conjugate method in my experience:

  • While changing the lifts frequently has some benefits, it also misses some of the benefits of specificity and doing the same lifts more consistently.
  • I ended up plateauing on the maximum effort days after a nice bit of progress.  I learned from then moving on to the Texas Method that I respond best when i include some heavy sets of five and three.
  • Max effort days are a bit mentally taxing.  One rep maxes take a toll, even when it’s a different exercise each week.
  • Setting up bands for accommodating resistance on different exercises can be a pain.  Though in fairness I have a home garage setup that required me to get creative with attaching bands to my equipment.  Would probably be more of an afterthought if I had a professional monolift and bench with proper band pegs.  But the bands feel like a distraction sometimes.
  • Along the same lines, it took a lot of trial and error to get the band tensions right on each lift, and when I used too much tension it beat me up a little.
  • The constant changing of exercises requires a lot of thought.  Nothing wrong with that, but I always wondered if I was choosing wisely or spinning my wheels.
  • The suggestion to max out on lifts besides the main three  is fun and interesting, but not terribly specific for raw lifters who don’t use lifting suits.
  • Utilizing a huge variety of assistance exercises requires a huge variety of equipment.  I have a number of toys in my garage gym, and was able to get creative.  For instance I used a simple Spud Inc. belt and weight pin with some wooden platforms I built to mimic Louie Simmons’ belt squat machine.  I did Russian leg curls by putting plates and a pad on my bar, and a mat on the ground so I had something to hold my ankles and cushion my knees.  But this type of programming can still be difficult in the confines of a garage gym.  And even most commercial gyms for that matter.
  • The huge variety of exercises aren’t super specific to the main barbell lifts.  It might prevent injuries, but if I did this again (and I might) I’d experiment with greater focus on fewer lifts.
  • Conjugate doesn’t generally include power cleans and power snatch like the Texas Method, though that might be an option for assistance work if desired and programmed properly.

All in all, I’m not sure Conjugate is the best choice for a lifter just looking to get strong in the raw lifts for living life.  Especially when considering that 5/3/1 allows for plenty of jumping and running too.  I may give this another go at some point, and I can’t deny I made progress, but I have to include more heavy sets of five and three to make steady progress.  That said, I might use Conjugate for periods of time when heavy sets of five have me worn down and it’s time to mix things up temporarily.  If I can make some steady progress on maxes for a few months by maxing weekly after building myself up with fives for a period of time, that will be a worthwhile use of Conjugate.

5/3/1

Jim Wendler Squatting - 5/3/1

Interestingly, I came across Jim Wendler’s 5/3/1 programming in an article about the Texas Method.  The author of that article was arguing that the Texas Method is really geared towards younger lifters and that 5/3/1 might be a better intermediate training program for lifters over forty.  Turns out I had huge success with the Texas Method in my forties, but I digress.  Anyhow, I was familiar with Jim Wendler and immediately looked up the program to see what it’s all about.

5/3/1 moves in monthly cycles and is based on percentages of a training max that is notched up at the beginning of each new monthly cycle.  The percentages increase over the first three weeks of each month with the repetitions per set generally decreasing with the increase in weight.  However, on the last set of each barbell exercise Wendler recommends doing extra reps depending on how a lifter feels.  Then the fourth week is a nice light deload week for extra recovery.  Rinse and repeat.  The meat of this program is properly based around the squat, deadlift, press and bench press as it should be, and those are the lifts that the percentages are applied to.  After the main lifts, a lifter can program various assistance lifts as they desire which gives it a bit of a Conjugate feel.  But Wendler has a handful of meat and potatoes assistance lifts he recommends (as oppose to constantly changing), and also offers up several variations on the 5/3/1 program for different objectives and focuses on the assistance part of the workouts.  Generally speaking he suggests that the assistance work be done without much stress and strain to keep the focus on the compound barbell lifts that drive the real adaptations and gains.

Another explicit aspect of 5/3/1 that I really like is a focus on agility and conditioning.  Wendler suggests Joe DeFranco’s agile eight warmup to get loose, and he suggests lots of options for staying fit as well, from hill sprints to prowler workouts to walking with a heavy weight vest.  Personally, I also fit in some heavy bag workouts and interval training that is somewhat like a Crossfit WOD.  Wendler was a Division 1 fullback in college and places a good amount of emphasis on staying athletic while getting stronger.  I think there’s a lot to be said for that, and the 5/3/1 workouts are relatively quick and to the point to allow for more time to gain fitness outside of the weight room.

On to my experiences with 5/3/1.

Some pros of 5/3/1 in my experience:

  • As mentioned, the workouts are concise and effective, with an emphasis on staying fit, loose, and athletic.
  • Each workout takes approximately the same amount of time, allowing for flexibility to fit it into my schedule.
  • The deload week is a nice feature.  I never feel like I’m flirting with the threshold of overtraining on this program.  And in the deload week I can do a little bit more intense conditioning which I like.  That’s something I just couldn’t do at all with the Texas Method.
  • The percentage approach makes things pretty straight forward.  The Texas Method isn’t percentage based, the weekly increases were generally pretty much prescribed, so both programs prevent excessive guesswork.  This is in contrast to the Conjugate method where every week there were lots of decisions to be made about which exercises to pick and how much to lift.  There are advantages to both, but sometimes it’s nice to have training sessions laid out succinctly to take guesswork out of the planning so a lifter can focus on the actual lifting.
  • Month-based training waves as opposed to weekly allows for more recovery between the highest intensity and highest volume sessions.  Again, this allows for fresher legs to get fit and athletic outside of the weight room.
  • Increased recovery for the muscles, nervous system, and joints also means increased recovery for the mind and a bit less cortisol coursing through the veins.  For me, this generally means  better mental function and mood which can’t be overlooked.
  • While monthly increases means slower progress overall, I’m able to run this program for longer periods of time because of the increased recovery.  And if the training max for the squat and deadlift increase 10 lbs. per month, that’s 120 lbs. per year.  The Texas Method calls for 5 lb. increases each week or 20 lbs. per month.  But I got to a point where I met my goals for the Texas Method, was in the advanced intermediate range as far as the weights I was lifting, and felt pretty beat up.  As Rippetoe will tell you, a lifter starting to get closer to the limits of their potential will have to make slower progress as they proceed because the training stress gets harder to recover from.  5/3/1 is a nice option for me in that regard.  And if I can add 120 lbs. to any lift in a year that’s a huge win.
  • The assistance work is meant to be a bit of an afterthought which makes it more fun and creates zero stress.  Just build a little extra useful muscle and get a pump.  I lift for strength and performance primarily, but it feels good to get a little pumped sometimes.
  • The 5+, 3+, and 1+ sets that finish of the main lift for the day are a nice feature that allows a lifter to add another rep or more at the heaviest weight for the day.  This allows for more work/progress when feeling good, and tests the will too.  But I caution anyone doing this program to always leave a good amount in the tank.  One of the reasons I ended up stopping 5/3/1 was because I went too hard on the “plus” sets at the end of some workouts and beat myself up unnecessarily.  It was my fault and not a fault of the program, but it’s worth noting.

Some cons of 5/3/1 in my experience:

  • Never ventures into that 5×5 volume at heavy weights that seems to drive some serious adaptation for me.  Definitely some good sets of five and three though anyway.  And in all fairness, the slight decrease in volume is less of a grind and leaves me feeling far fresher for other activities while continuing to make strength progress anyway.
  • I have to be careful with programmed deadlift volume, and 5/3/1 calls for a bit more volume than the Texas Method.  As mentioned above, my deadlift follows my progress in the squat with minimal deadlifting volume.  And deadlift volume sometimes wears my back out unnecessarily.  I have to be willing to back off when my body tells me to
  • Slower progress than Texas Method because the program is based around monthly increases as opposed to weekly increases.  But that comes with the territory anyway as a lifter gets much stronger.  Training is a marathon, not a sprint.  And if one steps back and looks at the progress that could be made in a year of 5/3/1, it’s pretty staggering.
  • Unlike the Texas Method and its “sets across”, 5/3/1 requires calculating and changing weight on the bar pretty much every set.  Not the end of the world, but something that has been noticeable to me.

Final Thoughts and My Current Programming

I think there are some great aspects to each of these common barbell programs.  And each seems to play a different role.  One will be good for a lifter trying to do one thing, while another program will be good for a lifter trying to accomplish something else.

I’d say the Texas Method was instrumental in busting through some plateaus that had been haunting me, and I accomplished some things in that program that I wasn’t sure I could do.  I also eliminated my lower back pain while increasing my deadlift significantly.  I made great progress with Conjugate too, but I think I’d rather try that approach again with a good coach and access to a gym that has a lot of the Westside specialty equipment.  And I like the injury prevention aspect of Conjugate and Westside’s track record of having healthy lifters.  After all, an injured lifter can’t make any progress.  5/3/1 is also a great program for big strength gains, and for me it’s easiest to fit into my life and allows me to stay in incredible shape fitness-wise and do other things simultaneously.  For instance, it’s great during ski season because the fitness, agility, and ability to stay well recovered and free from nagging pains lends itself to going out and charging down a mountain feeling relatively fresh and prepared to do so.

Having just finished up a long hard slog through the Texas Method, my plan is to try the 5/3/1 Boring But Big program.  This program keeps the assistance work emphasis on the main barbell lifts, just at much lower weight and higher volumes for packing on muscle.  I’ve been doing it for a couple of weeks and I love the simplicity so far.  Wendler has recommendations for a few additional light assistance lifts like dumbbell rows, dips, and abdominal exercises.  And I’ll continue to do some back raises, pullups, reverse hypers, etc.  If the program continues to feel good, I might see if I can run it for a year and add that 120 lbs. to my squat and deadlift training maxes.  Not to mention a potential 60 lbs. (5 lb. monthly increases ) to my press and bench.  I’ll also be curious to see if I can make those kinds of strength gains while incorporating plenty of hard conditioning and agility/flexibility.  I’ll never know until I try.  If progress stalls, I’ll have to assess next steps and alter my course.  I’ll plan to write some updates along the way.

I also plan to tap into Rippetoe’s more advanced training methods at some point.  Perhaps if 5/3/1 stalls out a bit.  I have no doubt Rippetoe knows how to keep a more advanced lifter making progress.

I hope this was helpful insight for anyone dabbling in these programs.  As always, I’d love to hear what others have tried and what they’ve had success with since everyone is different.  Please share in the comments.

Mind Control

Mind control.  Control of the mind.  Not controlling someone else’s mind, but our own.  Which is arguably harder at times.

The ego wants control.  It wants pain, doubt, and self sabotage.  It feeds on these things.  But the ego must be overcome.  And the fight is waged round the clock most days of our lives.

Physicist David Bohm taught that underlying the physical reality we experience in daily life, there is a soup of energy containing all possible outcomes.  In his opinion, it is our consciousness that pulls one of the potential outcomes out of the soup and into physical matter.  If a tree falls in the woods and nobody is there to hear it, it doesn’t make a sound.  In fact, the tree doesn’t actually fall either if no consciousness is there to observe it.

Maybe that’s true, maybe it isn’t.  But let’s assume it might be.  Then the harmful thoughts of the ego will bring more of the pain and failure it thrives on into our experience.  However, if we learn to mold our thoughts and underlying beliefs, then we can pull outcomes from the soup that are positive and beneficial.

I’ve been watching John John Florence compete in professional surf competitions for a few years now.  He’s a two-time world champion and arguably the best surfer on the planet.  To win surf competitions requires good waves to surf on.  I’ve heard the commentators mention many times how John seems able to will big waves out of the ocean.  It’s said so often that I’m starting to believe it.  And despite his physical talents and experience in the water, his results seem to verify this.  He believes and things tend to go his way.  Sure, he might just read the ocean better than other surfers, but he has somehow created a pattern out of something that would otherwise seem completely random.

Even if the soup of possibilities isn’t real, and we can’t actually manifest our reality, the ability to control the mind brings good thoughts.  Good thoughts are good for health.  They’re good for forward motion in life in general.  They feel a hell of a lot better than bad thoughts and are a much more enjoyable use of mental energy.

Is it foolish to believe in something that might not happen?  To have a potentially false sense of confidence?  Will that just bring more pain in the end?  No.  Because worrying about negative outcomes and constantly preparing the mind for the worst brings more pain than anything else.  It raises stress hormones.  It keeps people awake at night.  it turns hair gray.  It’s a waste of mental powers.  And while it’s nice when doubt is proven wrong by a desirable outcome, it isn’t anywhere near as amazing as when the positive thoughts of the mind materialize into something beautiful right in front of our eyes.

In no way can it hurt us to think positively and not get the exact outcome we desired.  The thoughts will lead us down a path, and the path might take unexpected turns.  But it is better to be on an unwavering path towards something desirable than not being on a path, wallowing in doubt and uncertainty.  So why not adopt an attitude of “what if” and see what happens?

What if coincidences aren’t coincidences at all?  What if the things we can touch and see are nothing more than manifestations of our minds?  How can we prove otherwise?  We can’t.  Everything we experience is a perception.  It seems objective, but how do we know for sure that what objectively looks like the color red to me looks the same to you?  We’ll never know.  My mind registers a keyboard under my fingertips right now, but how can I be sure that isn’t simply an imagined perception?  I can’t.  I could be touching nothing and my brain could still tell me I’m touching a computer.  Because everything we experience is simply the senses feeding the brain, and the brain assuming the senses are accurate and correct so we can go about our daily lives with some sense of stability and continuity.

Can we simply sit back, think about something, and expect it to happen?  No.  Action still has to be taken, and fortune favors those who act boldly.  This isn’t just about magic tricks.  Nobody ever got in shape simply from sitting on the couch eating potato chips.  On some level it’s about changing the mind to change our actions.  The proper thoughts create the proper actions.  The wrong thoughts, the thoughts of the ego, result in self sabotage.

Patience.  Sometimes thoughts require patience to bloom.  The ego will try to make us question our thoughts and derail us.  “My thoughts and beliefs aren’t coming true and I’ve been waiting and waiting, so this must not really work”.  This is where the hard work comes in and effort is required to keep the mind on track.  A person must watch their thoughts constantly, like a boxer watching his opponent in the ring.  The ego will go for cheap shots, and we have to be ready to dodge its attempts all of the time.

So how does one control their mind?  See the ego driven doubts for what they are.  Simply observe them, realize they aren’t real, and laugh at them.  Let them pass.  Speaking affirmations out loud repeatedly might sound hokey, but over time it can slowly shift the underlying beliefs  in the subconscious mind as well.  Only do things that lift your energy and avoid everything that brings you down.  I advise staying away from social media, overly dramatic movies and music, and mainstream media news.  Don’t waste time stroking yourself.  Get up and take a step towards being better.  If you want to waste time, watch something educational or take a nap.  There are constructive ways to unwind.  Never see yourself as reacting to outside events and circumstances.  See yourself as creating the outside events and circumstances you interact with.  And finally, it’s necessary to watch the thoughts and ego constantly like a sniper waiting for the enemy.  Vigilance is required, and it gets easier with practice.  Snuff out any destructive thoughts the instant they surface and replace them with thoughts of strength.  It’s a choice, so choose wisely.

I’ve been putting this approach to the power of the mind into practice in my life and noticing some incredible results and synchronicity.  If you’ve also had success with this approach, it would be great to hear about so please share in the comments.

 

Natural Supplements for Strength Training

I just finished running Phase 2 of Mark Rippetoe’s Texas Method for four months.  For those unfamiliar, it’s a barbell lifting program geared towards strength and centered around the squat, deadlift, press, bench press and power clean.

In the last week of this latest cycle, I squatted 435 lbs. for 5 sets of 5 as well as 480 for 5 easy singles.  And I deadlifted 500 lbs for a double and cranked it off the floor.  These were working sets, not even max efforts.  I was really pleased with my progress.  My previous all out max deadlift was 485 lbs for one, and this recent 500 for two was honestly pretty easy.

The Texas Method is a grind, and most people consider it a younger man’s program.  I’m certainly not “old”, but I just turned 41.  My goal for this last big push was to deadlift 500 at least once before taking a week or two to back off and let my joints repair themselves.  So I was extremely happy with hitting 500 for an easy double.

And despite being in my fifth decade of life now, and feeling the cumulative effects of four months of heavy lifting in certain parts of my body, I found I was able to tolerate the brutal workload quite well.  I wanted to share some of what I discovered from a nutritional standpoint as I believe it played a big part in ability to recover from the hard work.

Food – The Foundation

First and foremost, my diet was impeccable.  It generally is anyways.  But eating well was paramount in pushing through four months of the Texas Method.

Some will say that it’s best to eat anything and everything when lifting extremely hard.  That may be true in many cases, but I was able to put on ten pounds of lean muscle in four months while still eating clean.  I didn’t gain any body fat whatsoever.  In fact, I believe I’m a bit leaner now than I was at the beginning of this lifting phase.

Let’s address carbs and get that out of the way.  Over the past couple of years, I alternated days with carbs and days without.  But my goal here was to get strong, so I ate carbs every day.  After lifting I always ate a big pile of organic white basmati rice.  Every other night I ate quinoa.  And I ate a handful of blue corn chips or a couple of corn tortillas as well most days.  I can survive without grains most days, but the reality for me is that near limit physical efforts are best served by eating carbohydrates regularly.  And no, I didn’t get soft around the middle.

Other things I ate every day were 2-3 pasture raised eggs, meat twice a day, and probably 8-10 cups of various steamed vegetables, a bit of unpasteurized cheese, pasture raised butter, a spoonful or two of coconut oil, and often some almonds or almond butter.

With regards to meat, I always get natural and/or organic, grass fed meat.  I eat a lot of ground beef patties and chicken thighs, and a few steaks and some lamb on occasion.  I like chicken breasts too, but thighs have more calories and fat and just feel generally more satiating.

And for vegetables, typical choices in my rotation are broccoli, cauliflower, red cabbage, carrots, turnips, chard, spinach, and kale.  There are many days where I’d eat all of these.  I have a pressure cooker that steams vegetables really quickly, and I’ll just chop up a bunch of stuff and throw it in.  No rhyme or reason to it necessarily, I just know that it’s extremely beneficial to get all the nutrition vegetables provide.  And I go organic whenever possible here as well.  It’s a bit expensive of course, but the depth of nutrition is greater and the body requires a lot of nutrition to constantly rebuild and repair itself after intense training.  For extra calories and flavor, quality butter goes well with all vegetables.  So does sea salt, and it provides a lot of trace minerals.

With that covered as the most important part of any “supplement” regimen, I’ll share the other items I employed to go above and beyond in my muscle building and recovery.

Nature Provides Many Fantastic Lifting Supplements

Let me start by saying I never stepped foot in a GNC.  The only thing I took that wasn’t completely nature-derived was creatine monohydrate.  I took 5 grams of the Optimum Nutrition brand every day.  Optimum Nutrition sources their creatine from a company called CreaPure.  Others brands sell CreaPure as well, and I recommend it for it’s high standards of purity.  Creatine is a naturally occurring substance, but a supplement helps provide a much more concentrated dose.  In addition to helping the muscles, it has mental benefits because it helps recycle adenosine diphosphate back into adenosine triphosphate which is the fuel our bodies ultimately burn for energy.  Good for both the body and mind.

I also used grass fed, cold processed whey protein concentrate.  50 grams on days when I didn’t lift, 75 grams on days when I did.  There are a huge amount of health benefits in good quality whey, from immune boosting properties to providing precursors to antioxidants like glutathione.  The big reason I used it though was to get the extra protein necessary to recover from hard training sessions.  The Naked Whey brand isn’t certified organic, but it’s grass fed and non-GMO, so it’s basically organic.  But by not incurring the costs of organic certification they can offer their whey for a better price.  Still a bit steep since it’s good stuff, but better.

With regards to pre-workout supplements, one of them was always whey since it has lots of branched chain amino acids.  But I’d throw a tablespoon of raw cacao powder in it before lifting for a little boost.  It provides a little energy and a good mood I’ve found.

I also took a few herbs.  One of them was shilajit capsules.  Shilajit is an ayurvedic herb, and a bizarre one at that.  It’s basically ancient plant matter that has been concentrated underground and comes oozing out of the rocks in the Himalaya mountains as a black, tar-like substance.  It’s known as nature’s Viagra, so it seems to have a positive effect on the male androgenic hormones.  It tastes like burnt rubber, so I recommend capsules.

I also used a bit of cistanche, which is considered a libido booster as well.  Neither cistanche or shilajit is a true stimulant but I could feel a bit of a boost in strength.

And I took alcohol-free pine pollen tincture made with vegetable glycerin.  Pine pollen has bioidentical testosterone and DHEA in it, so it’s sort of a natural steroid in a sense.  Taken sublingually, the tincture’s androgenic hormones go straight into the blood stream.  I took it at least three times a day, and I believe it helped with muscle recovery time significantly.

I drank a cup of stinging nettle tea every day as well to help prevent aromatase and optimize the androgenic state of my body.

It’s also worth mentioning that I took some basic mineral and nutritional supplements every day.  This was mostly for health, but I have no doubt it helped with recovery from training heavy as well.  I certainly didn’t hurt.  I took a Calcium/Magnesium supplement, around 100 mg of zinc chelate, 1000 mg of trimethylglycine, six capsules of Nature’s Way kelp, 5000 IU of Vitamin D3, a B-Complex with B12 in methylcobalamin form, Ubiquinol, and a digestive enzyme supplement.

That’s a lot of additional supplementation.  I know.  But when grinding through the Texas Method  it can be rather beneficial to have the extra nutrition, protein, and calories.  And as noted previously, everything I took was more or less natural.  No weird lab-made concoctions you’d see in the pages of a bodybuilding magazine.

The Things I Avoided

While there were specific foods and supplements I consumed, I also avoided a few things.

My alcohol consumption was very limited.  Maybe once a month.  Alcohol has been show to lower testosterone which doesn’t help with building strength.  It’s fun, but not terribly useful, and limiting my intake a for a few months seemed to be helpful.

I also ate no sugar whatsoever.  I didn’t even eat fruit, with the exception of a few blueberries here and there.  Vegetables provide plenty of fiber, antioxidants, and minerals and vitamins, without the high levels of fructose in modern day fruit.  Sugar can also have negative effects on testosterone, so I choose to avoid it in my day to day.  And lower sugar consumption is a great way to maintain healthy metabolic health in a society plagued by diabetes and such.  I did eat grains which provides some glucose, but they digest more slowly and don’t spike blood sugar and insulin levels significantly.

Wrap Up

I’m not a doctor or scientist, and my experiences are purely anecdotal.  But I don’t hesitate to share the nutrients and supplements I had success with given they’re natural and have no dangerous side effects.  If anyone tries these out, I’d love to hear if they benefit others like they did me.

Dealing With Perfectionist Tendencies

I Can Be a Perfectionist

I have perfectionist tendencies.  I expect a lot of myself.  And when I make mistakes or otherwise fail to live up to my own expectations it drives me crazy.

The other day my boss found some formula errors in a spreadsheet I had updated.  I know he understands these things happen and he didn’t address me negatively in any way.  He just asked if I could make some corrections because he was looking to use my file for some financial info he was compiling.  No big deal.

But my inner critic and ego went to work internally on my psyche which causes some stress and negative emotion.

To be honest, I don’t react in this scenario nearly as hard as I used to.  I’ve lived long enough to know that  these things happen and they pass.  As they say, no use crying over spilled milk.  What’s done is done.  Fix it and move on.

But I still have to watch my mind for a few hours to ensure it doesn’t spiral too far in the wrong direction.  After all, there are ramifications to negative thoughts.

Negative Reactions Can Lead to More Mistakes

From a practical standpoint, negative thoughts and being hard on oneself uses up precious energy in a foolish way and simply takes away from the mindset and energy necessary to do the best work possible.  That can result in more sloppiness and mistakes which creates a cycle.

From a more metaphysical standpoint, what you put out is what you get back.  Assuming thoughts manifest, why put self-defeating thoughts out into the ether?  Even if that’s nonsense, the more practical and logical reasons not to engage in negative self talk are compelling enough.  So just don’t go there.

Also, fear of mistakes holds us back from pushing and asserting ourselves.  It’s better to take some risks, put oneself on the line, and make mistakes along the way, than it is to stay in the zone of lukewarm cushiness just to avoid potential failures.

Mistakes are part of learning and evolving, and often teach us more than successes.  Embrace that part of the process.

How To Deal With a Mistake

If you screw something up and feel the onslaught of the ego coming, trying to tell you that you don’t measure up, there are ways to handle it consctuctively.

First, step back from your thoughts.  Watch them as if you are watching somebody else’s thoughts.  When you simply observe your thought processes in action from a detached standpoint, you’ll see that they are patterns of learned behavior and aren’t truly real.  If you can master this practice you’ll notice that thoughts have less impact on your mood and they fade away more quickly.

It’s also helpful to think about other times when something similar happened.  That reference point is a reminder that last time this happened, it passed and you eventually forgot about it.

And finally…

Remember That Everyone Makes Mistakes

In a turn of fortune, I discovered some mistakes in my boss’s spreadsheet a couple of days later.  It really put me at ease to be reminded that everyone makes mistakes.  We’re human.  It’s simply part of the human condition to inevitably make some mistakes.  Nothing can be done about that.  Through thoughtfulness, diligence, and putting checks in place, we can minimize the number of things that go awry.  And that’s something worth shooting for.  But getting stressed and ruining days over something that’s just going to happen from time to time makes no sense.

So stop beating yourself up, keep an objective eye on your thoughts, know it will all pass in time, and maybe even laugh at yourself.  It’s going to be okay.

Complete and Total Responsibility

It Was Your Fault

You were approaching an intersection in your car and another car sped through a red light and almost blindsided you.  It was your fault.

Your spouse up and leaves one day for a different life.  It’s your fault.

Someone breaks into your house and steals thousands of dollars of electronics.  It’s your fault.

Somebody you encounter is downright rude for no reason.  It’s your fault

Does that sound a little harsh?  Are you thinking – but none of those things would have actually been my fault?

That’s a normal reaction to assertions such as these.  But there is power in learning to take complete and total responsibility for all things that happen in your life, whether good or bad, or whether or not they were under your direct control.

The Power of Total Responsibility

We’re all happy to accept responsibility for the things we appeared to accomplish or attain through direct effort, good ideas, and hard work.  But when bad things happen to us, including things that are completely haphazard, it’s much easier to point the finger at someone else.  And on the surface it might make complete sense to do so.

But then we miss the opportunity to take ownership of our reality.

Sure, when bad things happen and we didn’t plan them or foresee them they don’t seem like our fault in any way.  But by accepting the worst things that happen to us as our fault we build a deep sense of owning our lives.

We no longer devolve into victim mentality.  Ever.  Even when we legitimately could.  And when we stop playing the victim we also take greater ownership of our successes.  Nothing was luck, even if it was, and that changes the way we look at everything.

This fundamentally changes mindset and allows for a lot more positive action towards the things we want.

It also saves a lot of unnecessary frustration and stress.  In my own experience, amazing things happen when I take complete responsibility for everything.  I stopped yelling at people who cut me off on the highway or otherwise acted rude for no apparent reason.  That would be like yelling at myself if it’s my responsibility, and that makes no sense.  Yelling at that person wouldn’t have accomplished anything anyway besides raising my cortisol levels.  So it’s much better to avoid that altogether.  And it’s easy when I essentially see them as me. Now, if someone tries to physically attack me I’ll be fighting back.  Make no mistake.  But on a mental level I’ll still consider it my responsibility.

More than anything it’s a mind trick that has worked well for me.

On a more metaphysical level, I notice that the less I react to the negative things that cross my path, the less they happen to me in the first place.  Maybe that’s true, or maybe it’s purely that my perception has changed and I don’t notice the negative things as much.  Either way I sense that my day to day experiences have skewed towards the positive.  And that’s really all that matters.

Give complete ownership of your reality a try, give it some time, and please comment on how it works for you.